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Friday, January 30, 2015

* I Am, Therefore I Think ~ by Gangaji*

Your life is a sacred journey. It is about change, discovery, transformation,  vision of what is possible. Is your life story into a magnificent tale of triumph, of healing, of courage, of beauty, of wisdom, of power, of dignity, and of love. Being negative is easy. There will always be a downside to everything good, a hurdle to everything desirable. The real courage is in finding the good in what you have, the opportunities in every hurdle. Every lesson is a widening and deepening of consciousness. It is a stretching of the mind beyond its conceptual limits and a stretching of the heart beyond its emotional boundaries. It is a healing of past wounds, and a discovery of new faith and trust. Choose love. Choose it for you, your loved ones, your community, your nation and your world. We are all in this together and remember that we are all one and that what affects one of us, affects us all.





Angels whisper to a human being for a unconditional love

It's not our abilities that show who we truly are, it is our choices. A moment of choice is a moment of truth.. it’s all about the present moment and its infinite potential in your hands. It’s the testing point of our character and competence. If you are true to yourself then your integrity is guided by love. You have to do what you feel is right, based on your heartfelt values. Spread love and enjoy being loved back. The loving kindness that you give to others returns to you amplified and the purity of your being as reflected in the selfless love. The most beautiful people are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. Beautiful people do not just happen. Beautiful because having suffered themselves, they have learned humility and courage, and can now feel for others. Clarity is  like an oasis in the desert.  Your heart to become a place of compassion, acceptance and forgiveness. Live your life from your heart. Share from your heart. And your story will touch and heal people’s souls. Gratitude  can turn  a stranger into a friend.

“Be grateful for whoever comes, because each guest has been sent as a guide from beyond” –Rumi
“Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts.” ~ Albert Einstein

Can you remember the last time you had a moment of pure joy?










Thursday, January 29, 2015

Sunetul a avut un timp când nu a fost, dar liniștea există dintotdeauna… Întreabă iubirea și îți va spune ce să faci.

Oamenii se schimbă, clipă de clipă.  Așteptările de la ceilalți sunt cele ce ne istovesc liniștea. Bine ar fi să înţelegem că sunt oameni care nu vor să ofere. Nici gând, nici cuvânt, nici emoţie. Ești liber, doar că nu îți dai voie. Încă te mai gândești că e un șiret desfăcut și dorești să-l legi. Și rămâi în lanț, în bucla proprie. Dar sunt pantofi care nu au nevoie de șiret. Sau poate că e o perioadă când mergi desculț. Renunță la tot ce a fost și fii atent la ce va fi. Te ghemuiești pe covor în fața  sau la ușa celuilalt. Nu e târziu în tine. Iubirea adevărată nu poate fi controlată. Iubești și atât. Din greșeli se învață, nu din teorii. Insistăm când e negru sau gri până se face alb. Pe interior sau pe exterior. Ne privim și înțelegem ce avem nevoie fără cuvinte.
Dragostea crește din dragoste, nu din spatele întors. Uneori un „prea devreme” poate strica totul. La fel și un „prea târziu” poate hrăni un orgoliu. Ai răbdare să te coci. Iar când primești lecția nu te necăji. Vei înțelege mai târziu mesajul. Lasă să treacă. Învață și mergi mai departe. Viața este frumoasă dacă privești din unghiul potrivit. Nu există o rețetă a fericirii. Fericirea ta e un zâmbet, a ei e o floare, a lui o strângere de mână, a mea un cuvânt şi tot aşa. Emoţia e aceeaşi, veşmântul e diferit.
Bucuria omului e omul. Uneori oamenii te vor în lacrimi pentru ca, privind la ale tale, ale lor să pară mai ușoare. Dar mulți uită că zâmbetul de astăzi poartă în spate lacrima de ieri… Acolo unde au curs lacrimi, a izvorât viaţa.
Toate momentele vieții sunt unice. Momente importante care te-au pus la încercare. Momente care te-au făcut cine ești. Momente prin care viața îți trece prin fața ochilor. Niciodată nu poți ști ce îți rezervă viitorul. Nici măcar o secundă. Iar când știi, deja se schimbă. Dacă ceva se murdărește, altceva se spală. Dacă ceva dispare, altceva apare. Dacă ceva scade, altceva crește. Dacă ceva moare, altceva învie…
Sunetul a avut un timp când nu a fost, dar liniștea există dintotdeauna…

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Iarta!...Strângerea de inimă să devină strângere de mână.

Nimic nu e rău, noi le folosim rău. Fiecare zi este o viaţă în miniatură. Oameni frânţi sufleteşte găsim la tot pasul. Au fost, sunt şi vor mai fi. Ne rănim între noi din orgoliu, invidie, neputinţe.
 Reproșurile sunt mai grele ca necazul în sine. În viață nu poți să spui oricui orice. Mulți rămân doar la ambalaj, oricât am povesti despre gustul miezului. Fiecare om are taina sa. Inimă fină sau cu multe crestături. Iartă! Udă cu lacrimi ce e de udat, ară cu iertare, discuieşte cu bunătate şi seamănă iar seminţele iubirii. Strângerea de inimă să devină strângere de mână. Fiecare grăunte are făină, dar  şi tărâţe. Şi cel mai bun vin are drojdia lui. În fiecare rău e un bine, depinde de noi ce alegem să folosim, să vedem. Binecuvântează şi mulţumeşte pentru tot ce primeşti. Vei înţelege mâine lecţia de astăzi! Durerea unui suflet uneori e atât de mare ca şi cum ar fi durerea întregii lumi. Poartă în el toată umanitatea. Atât sentimentul aroganței și al superiorității, cât și al insuficienței și al inferiorității sunt atitudini extreme ale vieții ce pot dărâma ființa oricui. Greutăţile din corabia vieţii ne fac să avem stabilitate în furtunile şi valurile nopţii. Filmul vieţii rulează clipă de clipă în premieră doar o singură dată. Filmezi sau te laşi filmat? Totul este atât de simplu şi de frumos. Frumuseţea, gingăşia inimii şi a gândului curat fac ca orice om să devină frumos şi la exterior, indiferent ce urme are pe trup… Lumina din interior radiază şi acoperă orice rană, orice minus, orice…Înnobilează sufletul, curăţă ochii să vadă cele bune şi mintea să gândească plusurile şi viaţa se va schimba. Din ce suntem transmitem celorlalți.  

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Friday, January 23, 2015

“The time is always right to do what is right.”... “Hands that serve are holier than lips that pray.”

Happiness comes from spiritual wealth, not material wealth... Happiness comes from giving, not getting. If we try hard to bring happiness to others, we cannot stop it from coming to us also. To get joy, we must give it, and to keep joy, we must scatter it.
 "It's not how much we give but how much love we put into giving."

                                             To know how to choose a path with heart


Happiness, Freedom, and Peace of mind - are always attained by giving them to someone else

“Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” —Mahatma Gandhi
“A friend hears the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails.” —Unknown
“With the gift of listening comes the gift of healing.” —Catherine de Hueck
“The happiness of life is made up of the little charities of a kiss or smile, a kind look, a heartfelt compliment.” —Samuel Taylor Coleridge
“What most people need to learn in life is how to love people and use things instead of using people and loving things.”
“Speaking with kindness creates confidence, thinking with kindness creates profoundness, giving with kindness creates love.” —Lao Tseu
“The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right time, but also to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.”
“If we don’t believe in freedom of expression for people we despise, we don’t believe in it at all.” —Noam Chomsky
“No act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.” —Aesop
“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” —Maya Angelou          photo: Lisa Bettany



Discrimination is what makes life to be lifeless...We all belongs to the same world!

It is time to end the discrimination against people. Each of us can treating each other without discrimination. The world must flourish in every corner of this planet. People need to learn to be in solidarity and friendship. Racism, slavery, discrimination, inequality, must not be exist. Why the friendship and the freedom meet obstacles and discrimination has no borders? It is a great mistake. The people can live freely. Discrimination is what makes life to be lifeless. Education is important because people need to know that discrimination still exist. Racial discrimination and other forms of discrimination must be neutralized. A free society will abide skin color of all. There is no need of sacrifices and violence. People must change their mentality through education. Why do people make from possible, impossible? Why someone or something always interrupt people's journey through life? It is time to erase racism and discrimination. Prejudices also. We all belongs to the same world! 

                                                  Popoare, iubiti-va si uniti-va!


Volunteers ... the heroes that respect that we are human beings!

Volunteer...Create for people...You are the artist!

Volunteer...An eye opener and a fearless heart
Volunteer...A key pillar...A real life hero
Volunteer...Wings for humanity
Volunteer...Human being that goes into unknown to humanity

      Any of us can be a hero...Be Volunteer!





The poverty does not respect border...Take action...should not catch deep roots!

The poverty does not respect border; it does not respect who you are and destroy the sustainability between people. The world offers increasingly limited resources. Education promotes equality and lifts people out of poverty. It is for everyone. It is a fundamental human rights. The humanitarian relief should be a priority. Countries with higher levels of equality and development, need to find a sustainable path for disadvantaged countries. All these requiring the common effort of many nations. It is the key to solving challenges. If you believe in equality for the rights of all, especially for people most affected or discrimination, then you have to be present. Create action plans...Then, take action. When you attend a retreat, you have a chance to look at the deep roots of poverty in this world.

Thursday, January 22, 2015

Nu filtra realitatea...Fiecare continent este un drum cu o inima!

*Orice om este un fragment dintr-un continent.*
Continent = ceea ce ne tine impreuna pentru a cunoaste misterul propriei noastre existente.
Solidaritate = capacitatea de a rezona la suferinta sau nedreptatea impusa unei persoane sau comunitati.
Nu filtra realitatea!
Fiecare continent este un drum cu o inima...Existand pretutindeni, numai de noi depinde ce alegem sa vedem, ce alegem sa fim.
Sa dam valoare lumii, alegand sa sustinem, nu sa fim impotriva ei!



Este necesar sa invingi prin forta propriilor aripi!

Ceea ce nu putem cunoaste, putem cel putin sa iubim, deoarece a cunoaste, inseamna a imbratisa. Nu exista limita. Natura umana este infinit de complexa...cu toate acestea, multi oameni raman ancorati in rigiditatea unor valori, convingeri si prejudecati eronate. Omul nu trebuie sa cunoasca epidemia lipsei de incredere si a nepretuirii de sine. Asa cum ne focalizam asupra respiratiei, tot asa trebuie sa descoperim esenta a ceea ce suntem.
Pune inima in viata ta...Poti fi sprijinul si forta ce poate darui in mod eficient!
Sa intinzi mana pentru a alina si mangaia...a fi refugiu sacru pentru cei aflati in nesiguranta si durere.
Crede in puterea de a schimba lumea, de a influenta destine, de a instrui si inalta oameni, de a sparge ziduri si a construi punti de legatura! Comunicarea este importanta.
Este necesar sa invingi prin forta propriilor aripi!

 

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Everyone you meet has something to teach you...Try to learn something about everything and everything about something

“Always give without remembering and always receive without forgetting.” ~ Brian Tracy

“Ask not what the world can do for you. Ask what you can do for the world.” ~ Unknown

“A kind heart is a fountain of gladness making everything in its vicinity freshen into smiles.” ~ Washington Irving

“I keep my ideals, because in spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart.” ~ Anne Frank

“Alone we can do so little. Together we can do so much.” ~ Helen Keller

“Never bend your head. Always hold it high. Look the world straight in the eye.” ~ Helen Keller

“By being yourself, you put something wonderful in the world that was not there before.” ~ Edwin Elliot

“Small acts, when multiplied by millions of people, can transform the world.” ~ Howard Zinn

“Always be mindful of the kindness and not the faults of others.” ~ Buddha

“If you light a lamp for someone else, it will also brighten your path.” ~ Buddha


“The smallest deed is better than the greatest intention.” ~ John Burroughs

“You will never do anything in this world without courage. It is the greatest quality of the mind next to honor.” ~ Aristotle

“What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.” ~ Confucius

“Refraining from harm, not out of fear, but out of concern for others, their well-being and out of respect is non-violence.” ~ Dalai Lama

“Never believe that a few caring people can’t change the world. For, indeed, that’s all who ever have.” ~ Margaret Mead

“If you would take, you must first give, this is the beginning of intelligence.” ~ Lao Tzu

“The really important kind of freedom involves being able truly to care about other people.” ~ David Foster Wallace

“If you can’t feed a hundred people, then feed just one.” ~ Mother Teresa

“Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for a kindness.” ~ Seneca

“A generous heart, kind speech, and a life of service and compassion are the things that renew humanity.” ~ Buddha

“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle.” ~ Plato

“The person who says something is impossible should not interrupt the person who is doing it.” ~ Chinese Proverb

“The people who are the hardest to love are the ones who need it the most.”

“Do not insist upon your own fixed ideas. If your mind is broad it can easily embrace the entire world.” ~ Zen Master Daehaeng

“Faith is the strength by which a shattered world shall emerge into the light.” ~ Helen Keller

“We can never obtain peace in the world if we neglect the inner world and don’t make peace with ourselves.” ~ Dalai Lama

“The world is not dangerous because of those who do harm but because of those who look at it without doing anything.” ~ Albert Einstein

“We do not need magic to transform our world. We carry all the power we need inside ourselves already. We have the power to imagine better.” ~ J. K. Rowling






Children, fragile angels...When there is debate, there are solutions

Abandonment is a wound...an abandoned child never forgets. I'd like to see much more understanding of emotional issues...I can not accept that life to be painful for children. I can not accept that human rights have been abandoned. It is a tragedy if the people forget any sense of loyalty and good faith. Reality seems valueless...reality is abandoned. Why? When the children are abandoned or abused, they seek comfort in all the wrong places. This does not need to be happen...nobody should be excluded. Healing the wounds must to be the sense of excitement about the future. Children need to know that they are not alone, that they not will be abandoned, that they will not have a broken soul. In a childhood of poverty, abuse, domestic violence and abandonment, there is no life. Children are not a commodity that belongs to us.  I am disturbed by exploitation of children. The child*s tears is abuse...It is a disastrous experience. They can not fight back.
What does it mean to love someone with all your heart? It means to love with all your emotional feelings and with all your devotion. They deserve all our attention and love. We have a responsibility for the safety of children. All women need to understand the true meaning of maternity...to have that impulse to wish that no child should ever be hurt, abused or not have opportunities in life.  

Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Sponsor a word...make it a reality!...You can learn all about the human condition.

One problem...many dimensions.
We must find a consistent peace...You can learn all about the human condition.
Poverty is a great enemy to human happiness; it certainly destroys liberty...Poverty is the absence of all human rights.
We are equals...We all breathe the same air...We must give a chance to everyone.
Poverty can be removed by the actions of human beings...We have a moral obligation to assist those who are suffering from poverty, disease, war and famine.
First we have to recognize that we need a moral revolution, a common measures...poverty and ignorance may gradually be extinguished,
Poverty itself is an enormous obstacle to happiness, is a jungle...There are many people in the world who are rich and who can share those riches with those not so fortunate.
The belief that the world is getting worse it is harmful...You are going to let the fear of poverty to govern your life?




Escape from poverty...Hope is necessary in every condition!

I think the best way of doing good to the poor is removing all the negative factors that destroy peace in this world; discrimination, inequality, poverty.
Almost half of the population of the world lives in rural regions and mostly in a state of poverty. Such inequalities in human development have been one of the primary reasons for unrest and, in some parts of the world, even violence.
Poverty entails fear, stress, depression...humiliation and hardships.
Equality is more than a goal in itself... must offer an escape from poverty...must offer  what is needed for a safe existence.
Injustice, poverty, slavery, ignorance - these may be cured.
We all wish to live. We all seek a world in which men are freed of the burdens of ignorance, poverty, hunger and disease. 
We need to imagine things to make them happen. If you don't imagine, it will never happen.
Hope is necessary in every condition.



Monday, January 19, 2015

*Acta, non verba!* - Fapte, nu vorbe!...Viata are ceva pentru fiecare

*Daca vrei sa fii un om deosebit, trebuie sa-ti faci din cuvant o a doua religie si sa tii la el ca la onoarea ta.*

Esti ceea ce alegi sa fii!
Alege sa fii o atingere care niciodata sa nu raneasca
Alege sa impiedici o inima sa fie zdrobita
Alege sa inveti gratuit ca; totul graviteaza in jurul bunatatii si compasiunii
Alege sa inveti ca; fara iubire totul este fara sens si finalitate
Invata ca; numai prin a darui ne intalnim pe deasupra graiurilor acestei lumi
Invata ca; Viata are ceva pentru fiecare...Viata naste viata

Fii voluntar!...Afi, inseamna a fi un luptator pentru tine si un erou pentru ceilalti
*Acta, non verba!* - Fapte, nu vorbe!

A fi uman inseamna a fi frumos!

A fi uman inseamna a fi frumos!
Inseamna, a completa o lume verde scaldata in iubire
Inseamna, sa asculti inima celui care plange fara glas
A fi uman inseamna a fi frumos!
Cand un cuvant ia foc in noi...viata este a inimii

Ingredientele principale în actiunile umanitare, nu sunt nici banii, nici numarul de oameni implicati, ci pasiunea, daruirea cu care lucreaza cei ce vor sa-si dea din timpul, abilitatile, cunostintele lor în beneficiul altora.

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Omul trebuie doar sa fie...Fii solidar!

In lume nu exista lucruri urate, ci numai moduri urate de a privi lumea.
On-line-ul are puterea si poate solidariza oamenii pentru a zamisli o noua realitate.
Nu te impovara de monotonia inconjuratoare...Mobilizeaza-ti potentialul...Ridica-te la inaltimea propriei misiuni!
Marile adevaruri sunt simple dar, au o valoare incomensurabila.
Fii solidar intr-o lume biciuita de intemperii...Recladeste in forme noi!
Invinge contradictiile, elimina blocajele...atenueaza durerea, neutralizeaza cruzimea!
Depaseste rigiditatea prejudecatilor si complacerea intr-un echilibru iluzoriu!
Omul trebuie doar sa fie...Fii solidar!

Saturday, January 10, 2015

Iubeste si salveaza viata si nu vei duce dor de nimic!

Nu apartine unui om, ci Umanitatii...nu apartine unui timp, ci clipei eterne...nu apartine unei traditii sau unei civilizatii!
In aceasta viata riscanta,spontana, curgatoare, vie...tot ceea ce conteaza este intelepciunea dobandita in experienta de a fi uman.
Intelepciunea nu se imprumuta...*Intelepciunea este rodul trudei si al durerii* - Einstein
Intelepciunea se deosebeste de inteligenta...spre deosebire de intelepciune, inteligenta poate fi pusa in slujba raului.
*Pazeste-ti inima mai mult decat orice, caci din ea ies izvoarele vietii.*
Dragostea este puterea care uneste...un om care iubeste, nu evalueaza.
Iubeste si salveaza viata si nu vei duce dor de nimic!
Fii intelept!

Cand scrii povestea vietii tale, nu lasa pe nimeni altcineva sa manuiasca stiloul!

Nu lasa cuvintele sa planga...oriunde ai fi, orice ai face!
Renunta la tot ce ai ales fara a alege...fii tu insuti
Ca sa-ti aduci aminte cine esti, este nevoie sa uiti cine ti s-a spus ca ai sa fii
Nu trebuie doar sa existi...trebuie sa inveti sa traiesti...sa nu iesi in afara de realitate
Nu lasa viata sa treaca pe langa tine precum copacii in goana masinii...
incetineste si accepta viata drept ceea ce este...nu fi la mii de kilometri de normalitate
Nu pierde motivul pentru care ai plecat la drum
*Cand scrii povestea vietii tale, nu lasa pe nimeni altcineva sa manuiasca stiloul!*
Iubeste ceea ce faci si accepta omul pentru ceea ce este, nu pentru ceea ce face
Invata sa nu vezi pe nimeni si nimic ca pe un dusman sau ca pe o problema...
Invata si crede ca oamenii au o natura nelimitata si nu una limitata...aceasta mentalitate este gresita
Niciodata nu vei ajunge sa cunosti oamenii cu adevarat...pana nu asculti ce se afla in inimile lor...
Fericirea nu este gratis...dar...atunci cand iubesti, castigi intotdeauna...bucuria este unica si irepetabila
Invata drumul catre tine!





Friday, January 9, 2015

Invata lectia despre prietenie, altruism, dragoste!

Singurul lucru rational, este sa dai contrast lumii dar, pentru asta, trebuie sa participi.
Daruieste lumii infatisarea pe care o percepe sufletul tau...priveste cu  veneratie la tot ce te inconjoara si lumea iti va dezvalui misterele ei.
Nu te deconecta de la inimile celor cu care te intersectezi...descopera in fiecare om si fiecare lucru, partea buna, nu lipsurile.
Nu le da putere gandurilor despre o viziune limitata a ceea ce vezi...nu lasa infirmitatea din gandurile altora sa te influenteze.
Nu conteaza cat de plina pare sa fie viata ta, este intotdeauna loc pentru cunoastere, binefacere, prietenie.
Singura sursa de cunoastere este experienta...o cale fara greutati nu duce nicaieri.
Nu te folosi de fapte si cuvinte ce indeparteaza...ele nu vor mai gasi drumul inapoi.
Revigoreaza viata ta...nu lasa lucrurile lipsite de substanta si fara importanta sa prinda radacini...sa puna stapanire pe sufletul tau.
Vei trai viata asa cum o vezi...deciziile, sunt pasii destinului.
Onoreaza viata...da-i un rost lumii!
A fonda o lume palpabila dintr-o lume sfasiata de contradictii.
Nu uita ca oamenii sunt extraordinari...merita doar sa li se dea o sansa.
Invata lectia despre prietenie, altruism, dragoste!



There are no miracles for the eyes that do not want to see!

The miracles not exist for the eyes that do not want to see.
To pray means to ask for rain; believing in the power of the prayer is to take umbrella.
There are too many hearts locked, too many souls without courage, too many ignorant minds  and arms closed.
Do not let pass a blessing just because you do not expect in your way.
Never to be separated from the truth...at the crossroads of the roads you can choose.
When the people are discouraged, they give up too early in their dreams...people need love therapy.
Each of us have in the heart our own world...with what you have, you can always change something in someone...with kindness you can send the light where there is darkness.
Put the good stuff at the gate of your soul...cleanse your soul and life, later it will be more difficult.
Do not judge rashly the things...do not judge life after a tough time...you will lose the beauty, richness and the promise of other things and events.
Don*t let your life to unfold between past and future...Always give a chance of the prezent moment!


Thursday, January 8, 2015

If is necessary, make yourself the shore around of others!

If is necessary, make yourself the shore around of others!
The intricate relationships between people, put to the test our biological limits.
You have to observe the world consciously...
don*t put barriers between you and real life.
You don*t have a standard of linear life...learn that everything counts.
Give a sense of the world...you don*t think: It is easier to quit than to participate!
Don*t get lost in the problems...you will have a linked soul.
Nature is part of us and always creates opportunities.
Dynamic living and exercise your imagination.
Make mistakes, create value, be a optimistic realist...
Remember...Always you have a choice!
Living in the heart!...If is necessary, make yourself the shore around of others!




Don't give up when you have something to offer!

We had forgotten our true power...We had forgotten to be simple.
Don*t give up when you have something to offer!
Learn that in love there are no shortcuts!
Nothing ends up as soon as you stop to try.
Don*t underestimate the value comparing yourself with others!
Do not set your goals by what others say that is important...Only you can know what*s best for you!
Don*t be afraid to admit that you*re not perfect!
Don*t be afraid to take risks!
Don*t run through life forgetting where you*ve been and where you are heading!
Do not be afraid to learn...Do not ignore the things you love!
Watch how you use your time and words...they can not be recovered!
Not banish the love out of your life by saying that it*s impossible to find! 
Do not limit yourself and do not leave behind the things that have the power and value of *less*!
Turn your wounds into wisdom!
Always be part of the solution and not make negative gestures free!
Never forget that people are amazing!